Ok so there is a lot of important things I have missed since the last time I have blogged. I am going to try and go back and record some of the most important things that has happened for us (mainly when we had Tayvrie, as that is something I don't want to forget). So even though it has been awhile and most of this will be older stuff, it is better late than never right? Oh and this is going to be very long!
Ok last post I made I believe we were just finishing our first summer being married and doing the summer sales. We came back and lived in Fairview with my parents throughout the rest of the year and until we went back out again last summer. While we lived with my parents Tyler worked at a boys home in Wales and I worked at the bakery. We found out we were pregnant right before Christmas that year and we were very surprised, but also very excited. When I took the pregnancy test I didn't really think anything of it because I had taken a million before that (not that we were trying to get pregnant I was just being paranoid and always thought I was pregnant ha) and they were always negative. My sister Shelby was there when I took it and to my shock it was positive, I yelled at her to come look at it because I didn't know if maybe I was seeing it wrong. She decided to call both my parents and tell them and then my aunt Stacey came and stayed that night and we told her as well. We also let my sister in law Ashlee know because she is the one that gave me the test. Meanwhile Tyler was at work this whole time and my whole family knew before he did. I was contemplating how to tell him and he had to work all night so I had awhile before I was going to see him. I ended up not being able to wait until he got home and so I text him a picture of the pregnancy test and told him he was going to be a daddy. Needless to say he was very excited but also not very happy with me that he was the last one to know (I will do better next time). ha We had a family Christmas party with the Daniels family the next week and decided to announce our pregnancy to them then. We gave his parents a baby picture frame that had a piece of paper in it that told them to replace it in August 2012.
Positive pregnancy test!!
My pregnancy was not the most favorite thing I have had to do. I don't understand how women can like being pregnant. Yeah it was the most amazing feeling to feel her moving in there, but at the same time it kinda hurt when she would kick me in the ribs. My favorite thing was getting the ultrasounds (which we only got two the whole pregnancy, one at 12 weeks and one at 20 weeks). I was pretty sick until about 18 weeks. I wouldn't necessarily throw up all day (even though I would every so often) but I felt nauseous all day long and just felt crappy all the time. Tyler told me I could quite the bakery so I did the first part of March because the mornings were the hardest for me and I was always sick and had no energy. When I was 24 weeks along my sister in law Kristy and her boys and I drove out to Kentucky to do the summer sales with Tyler and Kayleb (I will have to dedicate a whole post to go over our summer in Kentucky later). I was very swollen after we finally made it to Kentucky. I tried to work out everyday in Kentucky and I did pretty good until the last little bit I was there, it started to hurt my belly no matter what I did. We did do lots of swimming though which wasn't uncomfortable for me and was a good way to exercise while pregnant. I found a midwife out there in Kentucky who I went to every two weeks. I really liked her and it was nice to have a doctor out there so I didn't have to worry about anything. One of the hospitals out there offered a lot of free classes to take for being pregnant and for how to take care of our baby. Shay and I went to a few and I was able to drag Tyler to one. I flew home at 36 weeks along with Kason. It was nice to be home and be close to my doctor and family again but I definatley missed Tyler. I again was so swollen when I got home and for the remainder of my pregnancy. I also was so huge and miserable. My first doctor's appointment back he said I was measuring at a 1 1/2. I didn't get checked again until Tyler came back because I didn't want it to put me into labor. Ty drove home and got here late on the 11th. We had a doctor's appointment on the 14th in the morning, which was also our anniversary. He said I was measuring at a 4 and that I would have her in the next 48 hours. He stripped my membranes and we left and did some shopping and lots of walking around and jumping to try and induce labor. (I hate prego pics of myself but I felt like I needed to add these for documenting purposes so don't judge ha)
12 week ultrasound
16 weeks
20 weeks
22 weeks
24 weeks
27 weeks
29 weeks
35 weeks!!
37 weeks
We stayed at my dad's that night and I woke up around 1 with some cramping. I knew that this was it and that I would be going into labor. I tried to ignore it and lay in bed pretending it wasn't happening as I was terrified. I finally was uncomfortable enough that I got out of bed. My mom was sleeping on the couch in the living room. Her and I went walking outside because they weren't too painful yet and I wasn't sure when to head to the hospital. At about 2 a.m. I woke up Tyler and told him we needed to go to the hospital because it was time. We got there at about 2:30 and by then the contractions were bad enough that I couldn't walk through them. We I finally got checked in and ready they checked me and I was at a 6. I was getting really uncomfortable by this time and was throwing up a lot. I was bugged by my nurse, she wasn't very nice and was taking her time with everything and I really wanted my epidural. Finally the anesthesiologist showed up after 4 and I got my epidural. He poked a nerve when he was putting it in and I jumped and it freaked me out. The epidural was amazing, I didn't feel the contractions at all after that. It did make me nauseous though. They checked me after it was in and I was at an 8. The only bad thing about the epidural was that it completely slowed me down and I didn't progress at all after that. I then tried to sleep as much as I could. My doctor came and broke my water. I finally reached a 10 at 9:30 that morning and they told me I would start pushing at 10:30. My doctor wanted to wait an hour after I reached a ten to let my body push her down the natural way. He said it was easier on her and me. My parents and sister was there most of the night and Tyler's parents and sister Kristy came that morning and were there before I had her. I kicked everyone out of our room about an hour before I had her because I was starting to get uncomfortable and wanted to be left alone. It was just Tyler and I in the delivery room (and he watched the whole thing, which he didn't think he was going to do). I could feel the pressure of her moving down and I kept trying to give me more medicine through the epidural but it didn't matter how much I pressed the button I could still feel it all. Well 10:30 came around and my doctor wasn't there. The nurse kept checking me and my blood pressure was going way high and I got toxemia right there at the end. It was like 190 over 40 and she was starting to freak out which was freaking me out. She kept calling the doctor and he said he was locked out of the hospital. I guess their security system went down and it locked all of the doors and he couldn't get in. He finally got up there and threw on a gown and told me I needed to start pushing because we needed to get her out as soon as possible because my blood pressure was so bad. I started to get scared and within two pushes she was out. I did have to wait in between the two because the cord was wrapped around her. The first thing I saw of her was a white butt. She was covered in whatever it is they are covered in and was very white. ha I asked to make sure she was still a girl, and to my relief she was :) She weighed exactly 8 pounds and was 19 inches long. She wasn't breathing very good when Tyler brought her over to me so I didn't get to hold her very long before they took her. I did have to get a few stitches and felt every bit of it. I also felt all of it when she came out too, which was not fun at all. When I think about giving birth again it gives me anxiety. ha I know it is all worth it in the end but I'm not excited to do it all again.
She is finally here!
Proud parents
1 day old
First day at home
So little
Comfy in her carseat
Ok that is enough pics for now but more to come later!! And lots of more posts to come as well!
